Paste what they wrote. GreyRock shows you what’s actually happening in it — and writes you back something calm, clear, and harder to argue with.
14-day trial. ·No card required. ·Three lifetime analyses always free.
Reading a message that wasn't really about logistics. Writing one when you've rewritten it nine times already. Wondering whether something is actually allowed.
GreyRock identifies which manipulation patterns are at work, separates the facts from the framing, and drafts a calm reply you can send as-is or edit.
Tell GreyRock what needs to happen. It writes the message in BIFF form — brief, informative, friendly, firm — with no opening you can be quoted on later.
Ask GreyRock what your custody order or state law actually says about a specific situation. Plain-English answer, with the relevant clause cited back to you.
Most co-parenting tools require the other person to install something, agree to something, or behave a little better. GreyRock doesn’t. It works on your phone, in your hand. They never know it exists. They never have to download anything, sign in to anything, or be a different person than they are.
The only thing that changes is what they see from you — calmer, clearer, and a lot harder to argue with.
If you've been told you're imagining it, it helps to see the exact shape of what was actually happening. GreyRock uses the clinical and legal vocabulary, because precision is part of the relief.
Deny, attack, reverse victim and offender — turning the accusation back onto you.
Disputing your perception of events to make you doubt your own memory.
A pattern of pressure, surveillance, or restriction designed to limit your autonomy.
Behavior aimed at damaging the child's relationship with the other parent.
Using a third party — often a child — to deliver a message or apply pressure.
Framing a request as evidence of your moral failure if you decline.
Every analyzed message is time-stamped, pattern-tagged, and quietly filed away. What starts as one calmer reply becomes, over months, a record so organized your attorney can read it in an afternoon.
Each square is one analyzed message. Color intensity reflects pattern severity.
For situations that need support, not surveillance.
For high-conflict situations requiring documentation.
14-day free trial · No credit card required.
Attorney practice plans available.Messages you paste are stored encrypted, accessible only to your account. Nothing trains a public model. Nothing leaves the platform unless you export it.
No emails sent to you with subject lines that name what GreyRock does. No push notifications visible from your lock screen. No mention on a shared device unless you sign in.
If a message contains a threat, you don't need a paid plan to see that. Pattern detection on threatening messages and a panic-export of your recent evidence stay free for everyone.
Two early users let us share what GreyRock looked like from their side.
“Sharing this because I spent two years thinking I was the problem.”
“Six months ago I would’ve written four paragraphs over two hours and been painfully frustrated. GreyRock took ninety seconds. This changed my life.”
Three minutes to set up. Fourteen days to decide. No card on file the whole time.